Pointless to dream of turning the tree in the birch and the elephant - a dragonfly.Likewise, self-defeating attempts to forcibly change the nature of the satellite life, his views and principles. "But how to cope with the irritation from what he's doing wrong?" - You ask.Answer. Try to look for a spouse, not as its continuation, but as a representative ...other people. You're not going to force the Frenchman to abandon frogs legs and go to the daily intake of fat just because they themselves eat? The fact that we used to take the right course - only a consequence of our upbringing and the result of our experience. Keep this in mind, and life will become much easier!
In the world there are only ones whose family units are built exclusively on the highly spiritual purposes - like Lenin and Krupskaya, for example. But for most people, tactile contacts are extremely important. Use the "rule of the golden touch: do not forget to kiss, caress a loved one, a few moments to stand with him in an embrace.And do it not just in the bedroom as a prelude to sex, but every time you want to recall their love.
Speaking of the bedroom. Sex should not be a service or "honorary duty", as a service in the armed forces. It should be fun. Both! Always! And if one of you for some reason today abandons it (tired, unwell or just do not want to), try to get by without suspicion and complaints. Kissing a loved one, wish him good night and tune in to the fact that tomorrow you must do it! However, if such failures occur regularly, it is better to seek assistance from sexologist: lack of sex life can destroy even the strongest marriage.
Try every day to rejoice that you are near it is the man - with all its advantages and disadvantages. And to learn to appreciate and understand your mate, you are simply thinking about it more and more often than you think about yourself.
Adequate communication is as necessary for happiness in marriage, as well as regular sex.Talk as frequently as possible - everything in the world. Learn to listen and hear each other. Do not save up resentment. Make it a rule just to clarify misunderstandings and to tolerate.
And finally, do not forget to tell each other compliments. Without a gentle tender words woman languishes like a flower that is not watered. And men, if not praise, grows from an inferiority complex. Do not skimp on the good word!
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